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Being A Good Girl Does Not Pay [TRUE OR FALSE]

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Being A Good Girl Does Not Pay

Being A Good Girl Does Not Pay

True or false? This statement reflects the common perception that girls do not get paid less for being good girl. While there exist arguments to support both sides of the argument, there exists the opposite opinion too. Studies show that even though girls make more choices according to gender equality conventions, the girls still don’t earn enough money to raise children. True Girls do indeed work harder than boys. Therefore, if women were treated equally pay the same amount of salary as men; I would agree that true statements should be kept in mind while making decisions regarding school curricula and examinations. In addition, these differences may result in biased judgment due to gender stereotypes. On top of that, girls are often made fun of more for playing sports or musical instruments whereas male students

 

You are right; being a good girl can be a costly business. You may not want to do something because you feel it may be wrong, but in reality, it may not be wrong at all. Therefore, here is the story. It all started when I was eight years old. I was playing football with some boys and we were doing our best to play. We wanted to be on the winning team and we were fighting hard to achieve that. Unfortunately, one of them fell and got hurt. As I was running towards him to pick him up, he asked me to be careful as he had hurt his elbow. That day, I did not pay much attention to it. We had won the game and I did not think anything much of it. I picked him up and carried him to the car. We were happy after the game.

 

People always want to be good. However, a lot of people would not agree that they are good in this manner. Most of the people who are considered as good, are not that good. They are not willing to do good for others. They are not willing to sacrifice their comfort for others. They are self-centered and selfish. We should have a certain amount of sacrifice to keep ourselves alive. But, what can we do? We can’t always sacrifice to be good. So, we should not feel guilty of not being good. Some of us can afford to be good because we are not worried about others. We are used to take our comfort in terms of living and comfort. We are busy to make sure that we are busy in our own way. Some of us try to be good but we lack the required concentration. We lack the ability to be good.

 

Being a good girl in a way that your mother wants you to be is not always good for you. As a child, I would sit on my mother’s lap and listen to all the things about sex. I would get a lot of information about men and women. I wanted to know more about it. I would ask lots of questions during childhood.

 

Being a good girl does not pay because a girl does not earn any respect of the society. She is always associated with girls who are mean and cruel but men love her. They call her a “sweet” thing. In the society, girls are always looked upon to be good and be polite. But she has to tolerate a lot of abuse. Even her parents and family members treat her badly because she is a good and quiet girl. She is expected to go to a good college, be a good daughter, help her parents, sister and brothers to reach success, and give an example to the society to follow.

 

Being a good girl can be a costly business. Most people who are considered as good, are not willing to do good for others. We should have a certain amount of sacrifice to keep ourselves alive. We can’t always sacrifice to be good. So, we should not feel guilty of not being good.

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